The Power of Three Little Words

power-of-words-31Some of the most significant messages people deliver to one another often come in just three words. When spoken or conveyed, those statements have the power to forge new friendships, deepen old ones and restore relationships that have cooled.

The following three word phrases can enrich every relationship:

I’LL BE THERE – Being there for another person is the greatest gift we can give. When we are truly present for other people, important things happen to them and to us. We are renewed in love and friendship. We are restored emotionally and spiritually. ‘Being there’ is at the very, very core of civility.

I MISS YOU – Perhaps more marriages could be salvaged and strengthened if couples simply and sincerely said to each other, “I miss you.” This powerful affirmation tells partners they are wanted, needed, desired and loved.

I RESPECT YOU – Respect is another way of showing love. Respect conveys the feeling that another person is a true equal. It is a powerful way to affirm the importance of a relationship.

MAYBE YOU’RE RIGHT – This phrase is highly effective in diffusing an argument and restoring frayed emotions. The flip side of “maybe you’re right” is the humility of admitting “maybe I’m wrong.”

PLEASE FORGIVE ME – Many broken relationships could be restored and healed if people would admit their mistakes and ask for forgiveness. All of us are vulnerable to faults, foibles and failures. A man should never be ashamed to own up to he has been in the wrong, which is by saying, in other words, that he is wiser today than he was yesterday.

I THANK YOU – Gratitude is an exquisite form of courtesy. People who enjoy the companionship of good, close friends are those who don’t take daily courtesies for granted. They are quick to thank their friends for their many expressions of kindness. On the other hand, people whose circle of friends is severely constricted often do not have the attitude of gratitude.

COUNT ON ME – “A friend is one who walks in when others walk out.” Loyalty is an essential ingredient for true friendship; it is the emotional glue that bonds people. Those who are rich in their relationships tend to be steady and true friends. When troubles come, a good friend is there, indicating “you can count on me.”

LET ME HELP – The best of friends see a need and try to fill it. When they spot a hurt they do what they can to heal it. Without being asked, they pitch in and help.

I UNDERSTAND YOU – People become closer and enjoy each other more if they feel the other person accepts and understands them. Letting others know in so many little ways that you understand him or her is one of the most powerful tools for healing your relationship.

GO FOR IT – Some of your friends may be non-conformists, have unique projects and unusual hobbies. Support them in pursuing their interests. Rather than urging your loved ones to conform, encourage their uniqueness – everyone has dreams that no one else has.

I suppose the 3 little words that you were expecting to see have to be reserved for those who are special; that is, I LOVE YOU.

— Author Unknown —

From emails circulated for some time. If anyone knows the author, please let us know so that proper credit can be given.

P.S. by Pastor Roland;
Though the author is unknown, this is so worth thinking about AND putting into practice.

One change I would make would be to add 3 more words:

I APPRECIATE YOU – We can say I love you and all the others listed, but the sign of true friendship AND love is to truly appreciate what someone else is giving freely and unconditionally. I APPRECIATE YOU is very seldom said anymore and yet it carries a lot of weight in esteeming others above ourselves.

I would also make a change in the description to the last 3 words:

I LOVE YOU is reserved for those special in our lives and yet, when our Heavenly Father sent Jesus to His mission that culminated in our redemption, He was saying I LOVE YOU to the WHOLE world! Can we do any less than to give love to those least expecting it from us?!

About Roland Ledoux

Pastor of Oasis Bible Ministry, an outreach ministry of intercessory prayer, encouragement and exhortation of the Word of God and author of the ministry blog, For The Love of God. I live in Delta, Colorado with my beautiful wife of 49+ years and a beautiful yellow lab whom we affectionately call Bella.
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8 Responses to The Power of Three Little Words

  1. imanikel says:

    Reblogged this on imanikingblog and commented:
    I know what you are thinking, but there are other words too beside that one and yes, I ❤ you!


  2. imanikel says:

    “I am reblogging”…that’s my 3 little words and “Thank you so!”


  3. Andy Oldham says:

    Very important phrases for all of us!


  4. I appreciate you sharing your walk of faith!


    • Thanks Rick! Your site isn’t responding, but your Gravatar says your a Christian author and such. Do you have another, if you do I’d love to check it out. If not a blog, perhaps a website? God bless you Brother!


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