Jesus, the Bridegroom


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Scripture Reference: John 3:22-30

The new birth is one of the key topics in John 3. In addition, in this chapter we see Jesus Christ in three different roles: the Teacher, the Bridegroom, and the Witness.

This is a continuation of the study began in Jesus, the Teacher.

The Bridegroom

Until John the Baptist was arrested by Herod and put into prison, his ministry overlapped that of the Lord Jesus. John did not want anyone to follow him; his ministry was to point to the Lamb of God and urge people to trust Him. But when two popular preachers are involved in similar work, it is easy for both friends and enemies to get caught up in competition and comparison.

It appears that some of John’s disciples started the argument. It began on doctrinal grounds—the matter of purifying—but soon moved to personal grounds. The matter of purifying was important to the Jews (Mark 7:1-23). Under the Old Testament Law, it was necessary for them to keep themselves ceremonially clean if they were to serve God and please Him. Unfortunately, the Pharisees added so many extra traditions to the Law that the observing of it became a burden.

Without realizing it, John’s disciples were putting him into a situation of competing against the Lord Jesus! “All are coming to Him!” – sounds  like a wail of despair. It is interesting to note that four of the greatest men in the Bible faced this problem of comparison and competition: Moses (Numbers 11:26-30), John the Baptist (John 3:26-30), Jesus (Luke 9:46-50), and Paul (Philippians 1:15-18). A leader often suffers more from his zealous disciples than from his critics!

How did John the Baptist handle this controversy? To begin with, he stated a conviction: all ministry and blessing come from God, so there can be no competition. Paul would have agreed with this (1 Corinthians 3:1-9; 4:1-7). Our gifts and opportunities come from God, and He alone must get the glory.

Then John used a beautiful illustration. He compared Jesus to the bridegroom and himself only to the best man. Once the bridegroom and bride had been brought together, the work of the best man was completed. What a foolish thing it would be for the best man to try to “upstage” the bridegroom and take his place. John’s joy was to hear the voice of the Bridegroom and know that He had claimed His bride.

Even before his birth, John the Baptist rejoiced in the Lord (Luke 1:44). John was content to be the voice announcing Jesus to be the Word (John 1:23). Jesus was the Light, and John the Baptist was the witness pointing to the Light (John 1:6-8).

If you have ever had the opportunity to read press releases, book reviews, or conference highlights, you will notice that very few speakers and writers are ordinary people. They are usually referred to as “world travelers” or “noted lecturers” who have addressed “huge audiences.” They are always in “great demand,” and their ministries are described in such ways that they make the Apostle Paul a midget by comparison.

This reminds me a story I read of a Presbyterian pastor in Melbourne, Australia:

This pastor introduced J. Hudson Taylor, the evangelist and missionary, by using many superlatives, especially the word great. Taylor stepped to the pulpit and quietly said, “Dear friends, I am the little servant of an illustrious Master.”

If John the Baptist in heaven heard that statement, he must have shouted “Hallelujah!”

The image of the Bridegroom would have been significant to the Jewish people, for Jehovah had a “marriage covenant” with the nation (Isaiah 54:5; 62:4-12; Jeremiah 2:2; 3:20; Ezekiel 16:8; Hosea 2:19-23). Alas, Israel had been unfaithful to her vows, and God has had to put her away, but only temporarily. Today, God is calling out a people for His name, the church, the bride of Christ (2 Corinthians 11:1-3; Ephesians 5:22-33). One day the Bridegroom will come to claim His bride and take her to her home in heaven (Revelation 19:6-9; 21:9-27).

What a glorious and blessed day of rejoicing that will be!

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Adapted and modified excerpts from Warren W. Wiersbe, The Bible Exposition Commentary Volume 1.
Unless otherwise noted, Scripture taken from the New King James Version®, NKJV © 1982 by Thomas Nelson.
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About Roland Ledoux

Ordained minister (thus a servant). Called to encourage and inspire one another by teaching His Word, and through intercessory prayer for others, praying for those in need as well as the lost. I and my wife of 50+ years live in Delta, Colorado where the Lord has chosen to plant us in a beautiful church home.
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